WEDDING CHECKLIST - 6 Months To Countdown

Select a Wedding Date and Time

• When your sweetheart and you have finally agreed to tie the nuptial knot, first and foremost choose an appropriate date and time for the wedding. Enough cannot be said about this. You want to have a wedding when most if not all your invited guests should be able to attend the ceremony. Do not for example have it on a day when everyone would rather stay at home and watch the soccer final. Most preferred days are Saturdays or Sundays. Any other day is also fine, but it would be better if it were not a working day. Of course you could consult the stars to see your ` lucky day' , but if you are not the type to believe in such things, choose a day where most people would be able to attend.

2. Discuss Your Budget

• You must know how much both parties are willing to contribute towards the expenses of the entire wedding, reception, attire, etc. Knowing how much you have and budgeting is necessary so that you do not run into the red. Allocate how much you are willing to spend on each item, and do not over spend. Have an item called Miscellaneous. If ever you do over spend, you can take funds from your miscellaneous account.

3. Discuss and Choose Location

• Choose a location that you both like. Infact, in our Asian cultures other family members and friends can also participate in the planning stages of your marriage and it can be more fun. In western culture, the couple decide everything on their own, and though this ensures privacy and non-meddling from others, I do not see `the happy family getting involved' environment.  In the villages, and this is not peculiar to the East, the whole village celebrates, even in the West.

4. Things To Finalise

• 6 months before the Wedding day is not very far away. Start preparing now. Do not wait till the last minute as is so popular with Malaysians. It is now time to choose your wedding attire and place orders. Choose and buy your jewellery and other ornaments. Order other accessories that you would I repeat – Do not wait till the last minute!
• There is nothing wrong in having a written checklist and checking it off everytime something has been done. Add and subtract to the list as you see fit. Let the checklist be your ultimate guide to a successful wedding.